Words by Robin
Musings, rough cuts, and misadventures.

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16
Mar
Robin on a bright spring morning looking cute as can be. The backdrop is breathtakingly beautiful, featuring lush green rolling hills.

More confidently me

Hi, hello. I'm still here, and mercifully beginning to find my way again. I don't want
3 min read
06
Mar
The giant Cupid's Arrow art installation in SF, in dappled sunlight in front of a cityscape with a long hanging fog over it.

Trans joy and the search for a new middle name

Choosing a new name has been a fun act of self-definition. And maybe a step closer to no longer getting
3 min read
15
Feb
A black and white photo of a stack of newspapers on a weathered wooden surface.

40+ sources of news and information for the US in 2025

Staying informed is critical, and a bit challenging these days. A revisionist and censorious US administration, a media and political
5 min read
09
Feb
A photo of a home's porch, with the US flag flying near some Halloween decor and a hummingbird bird feeder.

Staying in the US and fighting

I'm blessed with a family that crosses national borders, and the depth of care and concern I'
2 min read
27
Jan
A selfie of Robin at Matrix Conf 2024 wearing a blue KN95 mask indoors.

Mask up: echoes of early 2020 as I travel to FOSDEM

Later this week, I'm going to see a lot of people I care deeply about and a lot
3 min read
20
Jan
A photo on a hike in the rolling green hills of Petaluma, during golden hour on a spring day.

Walking away from Facebook

In this blog post, I detail my approach to leaving Facebook and other Meta services, and share my rationale. But
7 min read
19
Jan
The nonbinary pride flag, featuring four horizontal stripes. From top to bottom: yellow, white, purple, and black.

Hello, my name is Robin Riley

You've known me as Josh, or Joshua Riley Simmons, and there's a lot I don'
1 min read
09
Dec
Great nations, like great men, should keep their word. – US Supreme Court Justice Hugo Black.

Maybe in error, but never in silence

Existence and visibility is political. I came out as bisexual the day my fellow Californians voted to make same-sex marriage
2 min read
19
Oct
A photo of koalas in a tree at the Lone Pine Koala Sanctuary. A baby koala hangs on to their parent's back.

An event organizer's duty of care: from Codes of Conduct to Health and Safety policies

If you’ve been organizing events in tech over the last couple of decades, you’ve seen significant improvement in
4 min read
29
Sep
A photo of the words "mind the gap" written in yellow paint on the ground in an underground train station in London.

Stop defining people by what they're not: on "non-code contributors"

I’ve been outspoken about my dislike of the term “non-code contributors” for a while now. I mentioned it again
3 min read